Are you curious about DDLG? Are you interested in Age Play? Do you wonder why some people might find it appealing? Our guide can help you answer those questions and many more as we look into the rationale of DD/LG. DDLG and age-play build on basic human needs and emotions and our desire to nurture others and to be cared for.
The Beginners Guide to DDLG Lifestyle is a collaboration of information from our collection of things we have learned over nearly 20 years of BDSM play.
Beginners Guide To DDLG Contents
- 43 pages of information on DDLG Lifestyle From Our Personal Experience.
- 4" x 6" Non Editable PDF.
- Introduction
- Tabooed Yet Appealing
- The Basics
- Why DDLG?
- The Dynamic
- Important Stuff
- Myth Busting - What DDLG is NOT
- Daddy Dom
- Diving Deeper
- Starting The DDLG Lifestyle
- Find Your Daddy
- Before You Find Your Daddy
- Starting the DDLG Lifestyle
- Developing Basic Rules
- Non-Sexual Activities
- DDLG Punishments
- DDLG Rewards
- Communication
- Common Terminology
- Definitions and Abbreviations
What is DDLG in the context of BDSM?
DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a subset of the BDSM community. It involves a specific type of power exchange between two consenting adults. One takes on the role of a dominant caregiver, often referred to as a "Daddy Dom," and the other takes on the role of a submissive, often called a "little girl."
The dynamic typically involves age play, where the submissive partner regresses to a younger age mentally and physically. This can involve coloring, playing with stuffed animals, and being cared for by the dominant partner, who is a nurturing caregiver. It is important to note that this type of role-play involves consenting adults. The term "Daddy" does not refer to a biological father but rather a term of endearment and respect for the dominant partner in the relationship. This term can vary between individuals and relationships, and some may prefer to use different terms, such as "Sir" or "Master."
Why do people like DDLG dynamics?
DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) is a type of BDSM role-play where one partner takes on a nurturing, parental role (the Daddy/Mommy) while the other partner takes on a childlike role (the Little). While it's not for everyone, many people enjoy DDLG dynamics for various reasons.
One reason why people enjoy DDLG is the strong emotional connection that can be formed between partners. The Daddy/Mommy figure is responsible for caring for their Little ones providing comfort, guidance, and support. This dynamic can create a sense of safety and security for the Little, who may find it easier to be vulnerable and open with their Daddy/Mommy than anyone else.
Another reason why people like DDLG is the opportunity to explore power exchange in a consensual and controlled way. The Daddy/Mommy figure sets their Little's boundaries, rules, and expectations. The Little, in turn, must obey their Daddy/Mommy and submit to their authority. This can create a sense of structure and discipline for both partners, which can be satisfying for some people.
Some people also enjoy the role-play aspect of DDLG. Dressing up in cute or childish outfits, using baby talk or pet names, and engaging in playful activities like coloring or playing with toys can be fun and exciting. It allows people to escape their adult responsibilities and pressures and indulge in a more carefree and innocent mindset.
Note: While this guide is comprehensive, it is by no means a complete guide, and everyone should develop their own style and comfort level with the DDLG lifestyle. But this guide will certainly get you started. Additionally, if you want to learn more about the DDLG lifestyle, you can find more information online, including in our store.